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It teaches you about school rules, letters, conversations, and many more things. The ladies book of etiquette, and manual of politeness, by. Why are some people so mean, rude, and disrespectful to. Oct 21, 20 as an author and book lover, i was appalled to hear the many stories of unmannerly book treatment that modern manners guy readers have sent in response to that episode. And if someone calls you, go outside and answer it. Think about other peoples feelings first, because its still not all about you.
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